You are Responsible for Your Relationship with Others

Remember that whatever happens to you cannot hurt you if you know how to keep a balanced mind. You are hurt only by the mental attitude that you adopt toward yourself and towards others. If you show a loving attitude towards others, you will receive love in return. An angry man breathes out poison and he hurts himself more than others. Anyone who is wise not to be angered by anger will not be hurt. Remember that no one can hurt you. If another person blames or scolds you, but you follow the truth, then the truth will protect you from unjust attacks. If you allow others to fulfil their wishes in hurting you, you are responsible 

Trust! :) 

"Whoever harms a harmless person, one pure an guiltless, 

                    upon that very fool the evil recoils like  

fine dust thrown against the wind " - The Buddha